Can You Be My Friend? Musings of a Chaplain

When a new tenant in retirement living asked me, “Can you be my friend?”, the question touched something deep within me. As a chaplain, I walk beside people during some of their most vulnerable transitions—welcoming them, supporting them, and encouraging them as they find their place in a new community. This reflection explores what “friendship” means in the context of spiritual care, and how chaplains balance compassion, presence, and healthy boundaries while helping new residents feel at home. Continue reading

In the Thick of Things: Holding Space for Seniors & Spiritual Growth

A woman seated on a cozy armchair, looking out the window of a retirement home.

In the thick of things, where love, loss, and faith intertwine, I witness the beauty and fragility of aging. As a chaplain, I hold space for seniors navigating life’s transitions—offering solace, reflection, and quiet moments of grace. This journey is one of connection, resilience, and the enduring power of love. Continue reading

Spiritual Gold: The Lost Ring, the Well of Patience, and the Rich Soil of the Soul

Through memories of my grandmother’s visit and her connection to the rich soil of Illinois, I reflect on how patience and presence have become central to my work as a chaplain, uncovering the quiet gold of human connection. Continue reading

Award Winner Featured in Behind the Lens

Sunrays in the Afternoon, a Behind The Lens (BTL) award winner, was viewed 2,264 times, won the Top Shot Award 22 and Legendary Award. The photograph received the following designations: Superb Composition (20+), Absolute Masterpiece (9+), Top Choice (8+), Outstanding … Continue reading